Your Momma never told you....don't waste time on sperm you will never use.
I was talking to a single friend of mine that is approaching age 30. She really is in no hurry to get married but does want a family and children. She travels and has a great work life. She is seeing someone but in her words...."What's the rush? Women have children at 40 years old nowadays."
Poor girl...she had bought into the Hollywood myth that it is easy to get pregnant with your FIRST child at 40. Jennifer Lopez, Sarah Jessica Parker, Kelly Preston, Celine Dion....yes....they can have children whenever they want...why? They have plenty of money, resources, time, frozen eggs, egg donors, specialists, surrogates, and sperm donors. And trust me...these women have gone through some heartache as well. I had to give her a wake up call.
Ladies...if you are approaching 30 and are unmarried and want children....wake up....you are approaching the starting line for the Fertility Race. You have to find your sperm...date it...get it down the aisle...and get pregnant with it. WAKE UP...ladies...this takes time.
Now, I was pregnant with my first child at 33 and my second at 35....so ladies...I am not saying it is hopeless....but what I am saying is after 30...it starts getting harder and harder. I myself had one lazy ovary that just stopped producing eggs and blocked tubes. I had to have my tubes flushed (painful) and have sex non stop ....because I only release six eggs in a year...to get my first baby. The whole process took two years but after that...it was smooth sailing...I got pregnant with my second...right away. My body woke up and started producing. I even have friends that have had ANOTHER child in their 40's...but very few if any...had their FIRST child at 40...without a lot of help.
But ladies...what do you do if you are dating a guy....but know in your heart....he is not husband material or father material? My advice....if you are approaching 30....you need to lockdown quality sperm as soon as possible. In other words, don't waste time on sperm you know you will never use. Get rid of a man that has no potential to be the father of your children. That is right ladies...when you get 30...you have to start thinking strategically and logically....find the man you want to be the father of your children...and lockdown the dna. I hate to say it but...when you die...there is no guarantee your man will be there...but your children...they will be there in your life till the end.
If you want a family...if you want a legacy...if you want some part of you left on this earth when you are gone...wake up ladies...and get focused....and find the sperm you need to produce.
Till Next Time Ladies.
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