Sunday, July 11, 2010

Be a Woman of Your Word

Your Momma never told you, in order to be respected, you must be a woman of your word.

Ladies...have you ever had a friend that never comes through? If you have a party, she says she will be there...and then never comes....never calls. Maybe she says she is going to stop by on the way to the mall around 3:00 pm and you wait and wait and wait....and at 8:00 pm...she calls and says she got side tracked and won't be coming. She may insist on bringing the dessert to a family get together...and then show ups with nothing. And...she is the friend that says....I will call you right back in 10 minutes....and you never hear from her for several months....until she needs something.

This type of woman always has an excuse for her poor behavior...traffic, kids, relatives, car trouble, slow clerks at the store....etc. Sometimes...she does not even bother to give and excuse...what for? You learn over time to just ignore what she says...because her words have no value. She is someone that you don't trust or count on.

And then there is the other type of woman that is a woman of her word. When she says she will be there....she is there 10 minutes early. If she calls and says she will be at3:00 pm...she is there at 2:50 pm. If you ask her to bring a pie to the cookout ....she shows up with two. Bottom line...you can count on her...every time. Ladies....a woman of her word...keeps her promises and exceeds expectations. She says what she means and means what she says. She is trustworthy and relaible. She is someone that you value and respect.

Now ladies...ask herself...what type of woman are you?

Ladies..if you are a woman of your word....fantastic. If you are not....make a change and start being a woman that can be counted on by showing up and coming through on your promises. It all depends on...who you want to be.

Till Next Time Ladies

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