Husband Material Part 1

Your Momma never told you that not every man is husband material.

Ladies, after experiencing several failed relationships, I realized my selection process was extremely poor and uninformed. I guess I just did not realize the seriousness of the choices I was making. So ladies, you can learn from my mistakes. So here is Part 1 of the characteristics a man needs to be considered husband material.

Husband Material

1. Independent - A man must be successfully living on his own without help from Mom. He must have his own place. He must work. He must pay his bills on time. He must be able to care for himself. Men who are living at home want you to take over Mommy's role....run, run, run.

2. Confident - A man must have high self esteem...not arrogance....but he should feel good about his life and his accomplishments. And ladies...there must be some accomplishments...career, education, etc....to be proud of.

3. Anger Free - A man must have healed from any childhood anger and disappointments. Men who are still mad at their mothers or fathers...have a hard time with relationships. You will soon find that his anger is directed at you.

4. Financially Aware - Most relationships break up because of money disagreements. A man must have an awareness of how money works, the importance of credit, and what a savings account means. Some men believe savings is an option....or to be used to by him only on a big ticket item every month.

5. Self Control - A man must exhibit self control...as it relates to women, money, addictive substances, porn, lying, and emotions....just to name a few. Ladies, this is very important because self control is the one of the hardest characteristics to access in a man. You must watch his behaviors very carefully to determine if your man has control over his impulses. If you marry a man with little self control...you will be in a constant battle....for control...and you will not win.

I will finish up tomorrow ladies...

Till Next Time Ladies.