Old Love Remix

Your Momma Never Told You to keep your eyes open when it comes to old loves.

With the new social networks that are available these days....ladies...old loves can pop up at moments notice. Some old loves we want to forget immediately...we defriend them or prevent them from finding us.

Some old loves can be intriguing because they remind us of our youth, of a time where all we had to worry about was ourselves, and of a time where we were pleasantly naive. When these old loves appear...we remember the laughs, the silliness, the fun, the carefree attitude...we once possessed before life happened to us. So ladies, if you decided to hook up with one of these old loves...it is important to keep in mind a few things.

1. Years Have Passed - The fact is ladies....years have past. The person you knew years ago...may not be the same person today. Marriage, divorce, addictions, and who knows what could have occurred in this person's life. These types of events can change a person for the better or for the worst...so take the time to get to know the person again.

2. You Have Changed - Most likely ladies, you are a very different person than you were five, ten, fifteen years ago. Your values and morales may have been reshaped...your needs and wants may be very different...your attitude about certain things may be completely developed....based on your experiences...so take the time to let the person know you again.

3. Enjoy the Past - The one great thing about old loves...they remember the good parts of you...sometime the parts you have forgotten. They can tell stories and recount events...that you may have just pushed way back in your memory. I remember a scene out of one of my favorite movies...The Notebook...where Noah sets up a paint studio for his young love...when she returned...she had forgotten she loved to paint...life had stolen that part of her away. It was a past love that reminded her of her gift...and he restored it for her.

4. Stay In the Present - Don't get so caught up in what happened previously that you don't understand what is going on today. In other words, live in the reality of today. Your old love could be downright crazy. He may be a womanizer. He may be an abuser. He may be disturbed....or ladies...he could just be a lot of fun and very sweet. Who knows...just keep your eyes open and aware.

Till Next Time Ladies