Be a Momshell

Your Momma Never Told Me after you have kids don't let yourself go...be a momshell.

I have seen so many women have children and turn into "the mom". They turned in their sexy dresses for housecoats and sweats. They stopped wearing makeup and embraced flat comfort shoes. In other words they gave up and aged about 10 years overnight.

I agree for the first three months of motherhood, it is difficult to focus on anything other than sleeping but once your baby begins to sleep six hours in a row...you have no excuse. Get back on the sexy horse and turn on the momshell attitude.

Things to remember after motherhood:

1. If you still want to keep your man...the dad...look good. Put on a minimum of mascara and lip gloss in the morning and in the evening.

2. Dress like you care...so he will. Show your best feature off...breast, legs, face, back...whatever. You had a baby...you are a sexy vital WOMAN...bring your sexy back. Wear stilettos and figure flattering clothes.

The initial period of having a baby is shocking for everyone involved. Your life changes dramatically and both Mom and Dad start to think at some point...what have I gotten into. Statistics have shown marriages experience turmoil within the first 0 - 2 years of having a child...so don't go to sleep. Make an effort to look the way you looked before the pregnancy. That is who he married.

3. Lose the weight. You had the baby. You now have no excuse to keep the extra 25 - 40 lbs. Get back to how you looked prior to the pregnancy.

4. If you think your husband is cute, so does another women. Ladies...competition is out there. Purchase sexy lingerie again...the kind you wore to get him down the aisle...and wear it. Your breast and ass has changed...so buy new lacy bras and matching panties.

5. Treat yourself...As a mother you will automatically start sacrificing for your family however do not give up your regular hair appointments, shopping sprees, or facials. You deserve it. Being a mother is exhausting so be sure to replinish your energy and pamper yourself whenever possible.

Till tommorrow....