Tell People When They Piss You Off - Repost

Your Momma never told you to tell people when they piss you off.

Ladies, we are always taught as young girls to be nice, not hurt other people's feelings, watch how you say things, make sure you are friendly...well that is all well and good ladies but sometimes you need to let people know when they have offended you or pissed you off.

I had a girlfriend call me crying at work because a co-worker made a comment about her gaining weight. I told her to immediately walk over to the co-worker and tell them him are not to make any comments about her appearance or weight. She said she could not do that because she did not want to make a big deal out of it or upset his feelings. HIS FEELINGS!

Ladies...wake up...you have to let people know who you are...what your likes and dislikes are. You have to teach people how to treat you. You have a right to say if you do not like if someone treats you poorly. To hell with other people's feelings if you are sitting around crying and hurt. Tell them to stop the behavior. Tell them you don't like it.

Simply say stop it....I don't like what you said. No. Don't talk to me that way. That is unacceptable behavior.

And...this applies to friends, co-workers, and relatives. I generally don't include strangers in anything because there are "crazies" out there. Just leave them be.

Stand up for yourselves ladies...and stop worrying about hurting other people's feelings...take care of you.

Til Next Time Ladies.