Getting a Man is a Full Time Job Part 1

Your Momma never told you getting a man is a full time job...so if you want a man go to work. So here is a list of things you must do each day to find a man.

1 - Get out of your car whenever possible. Do not use a drive thru for any reason...to get food, prescriptions, or money. (I know someone who met her man in line at McDonalds and they have been married 15 years.) Avoid ATM's at all costs. Get out of the car and walk into the bank. There are employed men in the bank and they should know something about money.

2 - Show a little leg and a little cleavage. Ladies...don't go overboard in this area however...don't walk around in a turtle neck and long pants. Men like to see a little skin. Show just enough to spark interest but not too much to spark an erection.

3 - Be out of your house as much as possible. A man is not going to come knocking on your door. Every moment you stay in the house is lost opportunity to meet a man. Do not sleep past 6 -8 hours a day. You need every waking hour to find a man. Take a walk, garden, go to the park, go shopping...just stay out of the house and be seen.

4 - Look your best at all times. This takes real effort ladies. Hair, makeup, heels, outfit, nails, and perfume....Be sure to be put together. Make sure to carry an emergency kit in your car with a pair of heels, lip gloss, mascara, and perfume.

5 - If you workout, look as cute as possible. Do not go into the gym with a pair of torn dirty sweatpants and a top that does not match. Put on matching workout gear made by a company that specializes in that type of clothing. (Ex. Nike) Your tennis shoes should match. If you dare wear a scarf or hat on your head...it should match too. Wear waterproof mascara and lip gloss...even when you workout. You never know who has his eye on you.

6 - If you want a certain type of man, do research and go where he would work. If you want a politician, go to political events and join political groups. If you want a lawyer, go to the court house and watch a few trials...eat the restaurants around the court house. As I said, it is a job to find a man..so do the work.

7 - Be open to all types of men. (Race, religion, height, occupation, etc.) Get to him as a person, his values, and his dreams and then decide if he is for you. Do not limit your options.

8 - Email your friends on a regular basis to let them know you are in the market for a man. Recruit them to find you a man.

9 - Find your local area "Things to do in your city" website and begin doing something. Wine tasting, belly dancing, speed dating, city tours, museums, bike riding....try it all. Again the goal is to be seen and meet new people.

10 - Have your own business cards that are just about you. ONLY include your name and an email address (you may want to get a seperate account)on the card...and include a catch phrase or your favorite quote on the card. This way if someone wants to contact you it is less invasive and you have some control. The quote or catch phrase should represent you...for example...Love to eat, pray, and love....that phrase can say alot and spark interest. Give to everyone...prospects, friends, family, neighbors, co-workers...whoever...market yourself.