I Want To See You...And Mary Too!

Your Momma did not tell you that one day, a man that you love will feed you the line, "I want to see you and other people too!"

Now ladies, I have heard this line a few times and I know several women who have heard it too...so that leads me to believe it must work on some women otherwise men would not try it. The truth is he really does still want to see you but someone has recently caught his eye. He wants an opportunity to test the waters with the new girl while you wait in the wings to be life jacket when things don't work out. And trust me...things won't work out...because this is a man who thinks he is all that.

Ladies, if a man throws this line at you, there is only one response. Don't get upset, don't throw a fit. Remain calm and straight faced. Don't beg. Don't ask questions. When given this pitiful line, simply say,"I have a better idea, why don't WE just see other people?"

This will throw the man off completely because a man does not try this line on a woman unless he is sure that woman is hooked...and in love. But whether you are in love or not, take control of the situation. Begin to pick up your items and head to the door immediately. Give him a kiss on the cheek and thank him for the good times and walk out. Don't look back. Don't discuss.

He will try to keep the conversation going...even do some backtracking. He may even say he did not mean it or try to rewrite history and say you took his statements the wrong way...don't fall for it. Take control. You may even want to thank him for his honesty...but move on! (After all he just revealed a big character flaw...arrogance and being an ass...these are not qualities you want...what nerve!)

After you get in the car, wave goodbye politely and drive away. It is at this time you perform the vanishing act. Disappear from all social networks, do not respond to texts, do not call, do not email, do not answer the cell phone. It will be hard but remember...there is someone he is interested in that he WILL see...and if you chose to see him again...he will see this new person of interest but BEHIND your back....and believe me that is 100 times worse. Also, when a man drops this line...know that he likes you but he is not in love with you...he is in love with himself....so move on.

Don't spend time with a man who thinks there is something better out there than you. If he does not get how fabulous you are, walk away...another man will. Trust me.

Til Next Time Ladies.